Server join info can be found here: https://minecraftpocket-servers.com/server/129563/
SWITCH ONLINE SUBSCRIPTION IS REQUIRED!
If you play on Switch, follow this tutorial: https://youtu.be/CBceHZL58UM?si=FpikO8okhz9Cr9pg
XBOX ONLINE SUBSCRIPTION IS REQUIRED!
Go to your settings, go to network settings, go to advanced settings, change your IPv4 setting to manual, change your IPv4 to 104.238.130.180 or 173.82.100.84 for the United States or 207.244.229.200 for the Central US (this will also work for EU and UK players, just slower), change secondary DNS to 8.8.8.8, and you're done! This is more reliable than Bedrock Together.
Now click play, go to the "servers" tab, and join any random server with good ping. Then just enter the info here.
ONLINE SUBSCRIPTION REQUIRED
If you play on PlayStation, download the app "Bedrock Together" on your phone. Connect your phone to the same WiFi your console is on. Enter the join info as shown here. Click on the "friends" tab and you should see the LAN game.
Click play, select the "servers" tab, and enter the info here.